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November 9, 2025

 When I was a young girl, all the movies I saw were one that ended in true loves kiss and happily ever after.  It was a message to girls to find their prince charming or become an old maid and it was a message to boys to be independently wealthy and look for ways to rescue petite, beautiful poor girls who will depend on you for the rest of their lives.  Most of us realized in time how unhealthy this was as well as  unrealistic and that there are many fulfilling ways to live your life, partnered or not.  Jesus never married and he doesn’t seem to put a lot of emphasis on it.

One commentary I read this week called this Gospel story the “matter of the much married woman.” I like that description.  This is third time that these religious leaders have tried to trick Jesus.  Their examples are ridiculous and taken to such an absurd level.  They are making fun of the idea of the resurrection by giving such an absurd example. 

            Lutherans believe in the resurrection of the body, not a disembodied everlasting soul. So the importance of taking care of our bodies becomes important and taking care of the bodies of people around us, is also important.  The resurrection of the body brings up a lot of questions.  Which body will it be, my young body or the one I have now?  Can God resurrect my body if I’m cremated?  And finally the one we have in today’s Gospel, who will I be married to in the resurrection?

           

            Jesus is more than patient even with people who aren’t asking sincere questions.  He says that there are different priorities in this age in the next, and marriage isn’t one to be concerned about in the next.  Marriage is a way to order our society and bring us together in partnership and community, but that won’t be necessary in the resurrection life.

            Jesus speaks of those who are worthy of the next life having different priorities, perhaps making a jab that those asking won’t even have to worry about the details of the next life, maybe they could be focusing more on being worthy.  Jesus says that those that are worthy will be like angels.  Here Jesus is really making a jab at the Saducees, because they don’t believe in angels. 

            But we believe in angels.  We’re about to enter the most angelist time of the year.  Zechariah will be visited by an angel to tell him his old wife will bear a child.  Mary will be visted by the angel Gabriel to get her consent to bear the Son of God.  Soon the angels will be singing over the hills of Bethlehem to the shepherds to tell to go to the baby shower in the manger. 

            Some of have seen angels.  Many of us have been tended to by angels who helped us change a tire by the side of a busy highway or gave us a smile in the grocery store when we were pushing a crying kid in a shopping cart and told us it would be ok and that we are a good mama or dad.  We have had angels who left surprises on our doorstep, or neighbors who invited us for tea, or someone who paid for our coffee, or groceries.  Sometimes our angels are in the form of our furry friends.  When I had a car accident at age 19 my parent’s dog hardly left my side as I convalesced on the couch for 10 days.   Angels are part of our daily lives.  Some have wings and some don’t.

            Jesus says we will be like angels in the resurrection.  We will be giving good news, comforting people, thinking of others, caring, showing love.

            And Jesus says we will be children of God and children of the resurrection.  To be children is to belong, as Jesus says, in the household forever.  To be children is to be innocent and selfless and in the moment.  To be children is to be equal.  When Jesus says there is no marriage in the resurrection, he’s saying there is no jealousy, no possessiveness.  In the time the Bible was written and even in many parts of the world today, a woman has little say in who she marries.  That’s why Jesus says that people marry and are given in marriage. A man marries.  A woman is given in marriage, her father’s property given to her husband to possess.  Equality in marriage is hard to achieve, when one partner thinks they have it, the other will likely disagree.  In the resurrection, there will be equality.  All are children of God. 

            Then Jesus uses the example of Moses, since the religious authorities brought him up, to talk about the burning bush.  If God said to Moses that God is the God of Abraham and Isaac and Jacob, and made promises of liberation for them, then for God to keep those promises, they all have to be resurrected.

            Finally, God is God of the living.  Maybe you’ve never wondered if you would be married to your ex in the next life, but you have probably thought about what heaven will be like.  Will our pets be there?  Will it be like everything you wish for?  Will there be people there you didn’t expect to see?  Who will be waiting for you when you cross over? 

            Jesus is saying, when he says that God is the God of the living, that there are some things we just can’t know.  Even Jesus didn’t know the time of the second coming.  Sometimes we can get so wrapped up in what heaven and hell are, warning people against going to the wrong place, that we forget that we are God’s children now.  We all belong to God.  We are all equal in God’s eyes.  We are part of God’s family forever.  And we can be like angels now.  Sometimes we get so wrapped up in being right or knowing what’s going to happen that we forget to make heaven here on earth for people living right now in the depths of hell.  People are suffering all around us.  People are lonely, they are hungry, they are cold and struggling.  They can’t pay their bills. They don’t know when they will see their family again. 

            God’s new life, God’s resurrected life, God’s kin-dom is breaking into this world right now.  We don’t have to die to experience abundant life and the grace and love of God.  We get to be angels right now.  We get to bring good news to people who have lost hope.  We get to bring a loaf of bread and a pot of soup to someone who is sick.  We get to visit someone in prison and share a moment of grace.  We get to clip someone’s toenails who can’t reach their own feet.  We get to be angels right now. 

            Today we’re dedicating our stained glass window.  As work went on, painting the tower, the workers walked by this window every day until someone finally noticed, it was bowing on the bottom.  So these volunteers on the property committee brought this up to the council.  We were going to need to fix this window before it came crashing down, at which time it would be impossible to replace.

            On the window we can see the four quadrants, one for each Gospel.  Matthew is represented by the man.  He is the one who starts his Gospel by giving the geneology of Jesus all the way back to Adam.  Matthew focuses on the humanity of Jesus.  So a man represents him.  Notice a wing there with the man.  The wing is because this image comes from the prophet Ezekiel who had a vision of four living creatures, each one with wings.  Wings also represent the good news each Gospel writer was bringing.

            Mark is represented by the lion.  When he spoke of the one crying out in the wilderness, some thought of a lion’s roar, so that became his symbol.

            Luke is represented by an ox.  He talks a lot about sacrifices, and oxen were often the preferred sacrifice.

            Finally, John is represented by the eagle.  John’s gospel soars, over the waters at creation, and over the whole story of God and God’s people, reaching its peak in the stories of Jesus.

            This window gives us a picture of where to start on our journey of faith.  Look to the Gospels, the stories of Jesus.  Then it gives us a glimpse of what to do with that good news that we receive in the Gospels.  Take all that out into the world and live it in service to others, in community with neighbors, in your work, in your school, in your family.  God is God of the living and God is our living God.  We get to take with  us a living faith, inspired by the hope of the resurrection, and with love in our hearts be the angels, bearing Good news to a hurting world.  Our happily ever after rests in community with each other, and serving those who are in need, and the gracious love of our living God,

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